There's a Trick to Coding Your Life
There’s a trick to coding your dreams into reality, and it lies in the difference between desire and expectation.
It’s easy to get confused when it comes to talking about “non-attachment” often because letting go of attachment gets interchanged with letting go of having desires all together. Expectation occurs when we attach a should to our desire. Instead of “I want ________.” It becomes “________ should happen.” Or “I should have _________”
Expectation is actually just a shield of self-protective control. It is a shield from the vulnerability that naturally comes with owning our desires. The reason we want to let go of this is not because expectation is inherently wrong. We want to let go of the should because it actually dilutes the creative power of our desire.
Desire is a creative force. The more clearly and cleanly you can own your desire, the more freely that force is able to move, the more magnetic you become and the more easily your world responds and restructures around it. It’s like code.
We are coding our reality everyday. So, when you dilute your desire with control (which is really just fear that it’s not going to happen) you are coding your reality with “X is not happening” rather than “X is what I want to happen”
Now, here’s the thing. Fear is natural, just because you feel fear doesn’t mean you’ll never get what you want. What makes it more challenging to get what you want is protecting yourself from FEELING the fear by slipping into control (and turning your desires into shoulds) .
The quickest path to coding the reality you crave into the reality you’re living is this:
1. Uncover and own your desire
2. Acknowledge how vulnerable and scary it may feel
3. Clean out the parts of you that don’t believe it’s possible
4. Take inspired action *from the place of cleaned up thoughts and energy so the action is effective*
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